Testimonials

Dealing with Dementia

When the unexpected happens but you know in your mind it is coming to your loved one, you feel, yes I can deal with this, but in a very short time the time comes & you have to be parted. This happened to me 4 years ago this January, our lives changed immediately but life still had to go on for both of us. Looking for suitable care was not easy, after looking at several places we picked Avonlea & have not regretted our decision. With your loved one there, you can be sure they are getting the best possible attention. After almost 4 years in care, my wife has moved to Admatha Lodge to receive a higher level of hospital care. The move was arranged with us, no fuss or bother & she is receiving great care from all the staff in her new home.

Even though everything possible is being done for your loved one it is still a great feeling to call in regularly to say hello to everyone, have a cuppa, go for a walk etc. Every time I take something, maybe a sweet, fruit or a biscuit. She may not know me anymore but knows I am familiar & have something for her. Most of the time I get a smile & it is good to be wanted again.

Even though my world sometimes feels like it has crashed around me, I try to keep busy, gardening, baking, walking, visiting & talking with friends. I have also joined a club. It is not easy being alone but we have to adjust & move on.

Many thanks to all the staff at Avonlea & Admatha, you have made a very hard time bearable.

If anyone wants to ask any questions, I will be only too happy to oblige.

Yours sincerely,

George Hood

 "My Mum’s needs changed last year and we found ourselves in the very daunting situation of looking for a new rest home that was tailored to meet mums needs.

Mum moved into Avonlea in March 2010, the staff and management of Avonlea made the transition from mum’s previous retirement home to her new home at Avonlea a very stress free experience for us.

They were very supportive during this time not only for mum but also for me. Avonlea is a warm, clean and homely environment and provides mum with safe and reasonable care.

Mum loves her sunny bedroom with en suite and says she enjoys the meals; I have complete peace of mind that she is safe and well cared for.

I have always found the staff to be approachable, friendly and continually keep me updated regarding mums health. They always make me feel welcome when I visit mum and often invite me to stay and have a meal with my mum if I wish to.

Keep up the good work Avonlea."
 

G. P.